Monday, August 10, 2015

R.I.P. Virginia Schaeffer 1934 - 2014


One year ago today, on August 10, 2014 my mother died.  After a long battle with Alzheimer's she finally passed away.  I had not seen her in four years.  I was unemployed since the "Great Recession" and had no money, but I called her three or four times a week on the phone for many years.   I called on the telephone that morning and my brother answered the phone.  He wouldn't let me speak with her because she apparently was in a coma.  Later that day, he called me and informed me that she had died.

This was the same day that Robin Williams died.

I spent the day making art work.  I painted a painting just for my mother called "The Undiscovered Country"   It is acrylic paint and glitter glue on canvas board and is an abstract landscape.   I also made a number of clip art postcards.  In the succeeding days, and months, I have made many new clip art collages and fake cell phone tarot cards.

That same day, I got in a fight with my neighbor Scott.  He had a cute little dachshund named Virgil that I really liked.  I thought we were friends, but he sent me an "unkind" email that same day and we never really spoke again.   He has since moved out, and I miss seeing his little dog Virgil.  Virgil was a friendly little bighearted dog.

I had a hernia at the time and was waiting for surgery.  I could not move or travel much so I missed the funeral.  I waited over six weeks for surgery and finally had surgery on September 11, 2014.

Towards the end of the day, I felt I should tell my other brother about our mother's death.  Since I can't call him on the phone, I sent a postcard informing him of the death and mailed it first thing the next morning.  It must have arrived on time, because I heard that he attended the funeral.

R.I.P. Virginia Helen (Snyder) Schaeffer 1934-2014



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William Schaeffer

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